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moparsteve
Posted 2017-09-07 9:13 AM (#547899)
Subject: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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i have followed fwl cars since childhood ...... due to various

off/on lease violations in my hud subsidized apt in somerville mass

thursday 9/14 they are going to court to throw me out on my ass.

im disabled in a power scooter ..with winter coming i can see

myself sleeping in boston common in a wheelchair.... i will not go

to a nursing home....

i feel young.. does anyone have space /bedroom/ access for me?
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mikes2nd
Posted 2017-09-07 7:43 PM (#547933 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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got soc security? welfare..

hell I want to move to a retirement home, if I didn't have to cook and fix the house all the time I could get a lot more done. I should have rented.

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FwdLk56
Posted 2017-09-08 8:39 AM (#547969 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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how are we to reply?

what kind of lease violations?
why would we provide a bedroom to somebody with "lease violations"?

do not take offense, but, um, perhaps the SOLUTION here is to SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE and ADMIT that a nursing home just MIGHT be the best (and only?) real SOLUTION...

call it TOUGH LOVE, we love all followers of the Forward Look...
but tough love still is "love"...


my PRAYERS are that you do consider the nursing home solution !!!...

why? because you sound EXACTLY like my grandpa!
we took his vechicle away because he kept falling asleep at the wheel...
we "encouraged" a nursing home but his PRIDE would have nothing of it!
when we took his vehicle away, he walked to a dealership and bought another vehicle...
he still kept falling asleep at the wheel...
we'd hide his keys, he'd find them...
we'd purposely drain the battery on the riding lawn mower...
et cetera...

then, on a Saturday afternoon, he loads up an empty gas can and drives to the gas station for some lawn mower gas...
he falls asleep at the wheel, drives up over the curb and into a tree...
i'm called from 2.5 hours away, "your grandpa is in the hospital, broken ribs, punctured lungs, he's not going to make it, he fell asleep at the wheel while picking up gas for the lawn mower"...

i drive 80+ the whole 2.5 hours, BEGGING for a police to spot me and escort me the rest of the way...
no police but i walk into the hospital room and he gasps his last breath within 30 seconds of me walking in !!!...

he somehow knew, in his half-unconscious state, that the last of the grandchildren was now in the room...
got there in the nick of time to watch him gasp his last breath...


sometimes, and maybe it's you now!, but sometimes, a NURSING HOME IS THE BEST ANSWER !!!

call it TOUGH LOVE, but it's still LOVE...
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moparsteve
Posted 2017-09-08 10:28 PM (#548007 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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my protective services social worker spoke to or sent a voicemail to the housing attorney.. the same one hired by my landlord to proceed

with eviction.. to reactivate the agreement to do the dos and donts
to avoid eviction... to see a doctor about a genetic problem i have
of "getting it" if i do all this keep the place clean with inspections

twice a week i can stay and saved my ass .. i am fotunate to have
hud housing pay almost 2000 bucks and i pay 177.00.

i am sorry to hear about your grandfather. i am 63 healthy with a

mobility problem. pray for victims of hurricane irma.


steve
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mikes2nd
Posted 2017-09-08 10:54 PM (#548009 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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dang that's a deal, you must get social security? glad you get to stay, keep the place clean, you don't want to loose that gift(your essentially staying for free)

your property values are insane in that area. Move somewhere you money will go much farther...

a 800 sq foot condo in your town is 500k! most houses are over a million.

 

see this is 420$ a month :)  nice area also next to a huge swap meet and car shows :)  leaving that 177$ gift though is nuts

https://www.trulia.com/rental/4011844984-440-Fairground-Blvd-48-Canfield-OH-44406

 



Edited by mikes2nd 2017-09-08 11:00 PM
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moparsteve
Posted 2017-09-09 9:59 AM (#548032 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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thank you im fortunate re prices here are out of sight... cleanliness

fruit flies keeping gf over 2 months only 14 days a year hud rules

and as of 7/1 NO SMOKING... tough for me smoked since i was

14 1968. first smoke at 12 1966. they were cheaper then. so i have

to stay on the straight and narrow inspections twice a week w

advance notice.. spot inspections like marines! where are you from

sir

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moparsteve
Posted 2017-09-14 11:04 AM (#548363 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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came to agreement w atty in court its ok now thanks guys
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moparsteve
Posted 2017-11-08 8:30 AM (#551839 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: UPDATE : i broke the agreement ...RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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dirty cat litter .. I found my cats my best friends .. a new home right around the corner... starting to improve.. but

we have a no smoking policy as of 7/1.. that everywhere ..who smokes on the forum? well the elevator was broken

for 3 days and I had a few cigs.. raked over the coals for that.. this month my rent was 136.00... I'm blessed..

the other option is apt at visiting nurse ass. living.... they take most of my check 80 bucks left a month but have

income from other sources.. pray for me


steve
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Doctor DeSoto
Posted 2017-11-08 10:46 AM (#551843 - in reply to #547933)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me



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Sorry to be so "harsh", but WTF ?

F%$#g up such a simple set of terms by such a stupid and
self destructive action as smoking .... really ?

Have you been diagnosed with SFB Syndrome ?







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moparsteve
Posted 2017-11-08 2:31 PM (#551856 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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they want me to see a n eurologiist doc,.... and I saw vna ass. living apts... magnificent.. will take 6 mos or so to get in

there...
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Doctor DeSoto
Posted 2017-11-08 9:14 PM (#551879 - in reply to #551856)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me



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Well, good luck to you. I hope you don't end up out in the
New England winter with no place to stay out of the cold.
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mikes2nd
Posted 2017-11-09 1:34 AM (#551889 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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well step one is quit smoking if that's a rule for super cheap rent... I mean cmon...

A place to live or a cigarette? Ill take a place to live...
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moparsteve
Posted 2017-11-09 5:21 PM (#551935 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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thanks doc for the kind words ... mike I'm thinking of quitting.. hard when you've smoked since 14..... and.. my

payee sent the rent wrong amt 200.. its 136 for nov 170 dec.. its on the way not fast enough beyond the 5 th is too

late got a notice to quit from mgr standard procedeure .. I ll get the check tomorrow... or Monday be on to nite guys
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-07 9:37 PM (#559429 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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I screwed up again w the court agreement by catching me w smoking material a snuffed out butt in the barrel.

and refusing to accept or agree to personal care.. (bathing/showering) the resident service coordinator and property

manager are at there wits end with me. I have until 5/31 before then I will get into a rest home setting the Somerville

home... or another similar.. when my name comes up at som. housing I get another apt at Bryant manor. one more slip up or violation

smoking.. wearing unkempt smelly clothes pants falling down or refusing services filthy apt during inspection every other monday I'm on the street/ahelter subway
station asap. thanks for listening guys.. if I win 1 mil on scratch ticket or powerball ill buy a condo!!!!!!!!!!!!
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FwdLk56
Posted 2018-03-08 9:21 AM (#559443 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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first step toward a full recovery - STOP WASTING MONEY ON SCRATCH TICKETS
or is that the second step after QUIT SMOKING?


at any rate, "get well soon"...
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wayfarer
Posted 2018-03-08 9:43 AM (#559445 - in reply to #559443)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me



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...a slow motion train wreck...

Last year we finally convinced my 90yo MIL that she could no longer live alone in her home of 60+ years. She smoked a pack a day, Pall Mall no less, and all of the assisted living facilities said "No Smoking", and if smokes in her room they would kick her to the curb and not think twice...something about old people setting the building on fire...
She had enough clarity to understand that she no longer was in charge. Cold turkey! hasn't had a smoke since the day she walked in the door.

For what little money you pay for rent FOLLOW the F#$&*^%$* rules
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mikes2nd
Posted 2018-03-08 10:03 AM (#559449 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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try a van down by the river in the mean time? maybe even a dodge van?
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FwdLk56
Posted 2018-03-09 7:16 AM (#559503 - in reply to #559445)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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wayfarer - 2018-03-08 9:43 AM

...a slow motion train wreck...

For what little money you pay for rent FOLLOW the F#$&*^%$* rules


BINGO !!!

and, eh hem, STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN by posting your "train wreck" online...
that's what TEENAGERS do and you're "too old for that racket"...
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-09 10:38 AM (#559516 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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I will go to a rest old age home temp. till I get my apt.. thanks for the advice IM NOT A TRAIN WRECK .. if I wasant in

this chair id sleep in a 57 58 imperial!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-21 3:25 PM (#560257 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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times up I have to be out 30 40 days or less or 14 days after letter by constable. trying w caas and my gf to put

my stuff in storage.. pray for me.. and a miracle steve
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mikes2nd
Posted 2018-03-21 6:10 PM (#560266 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: Re: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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you should stop smoking dude...
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-26 12:10 PM (#560506 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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may be on the street/shelter in 30 days or less if worse cones to worse in court Thursday 9am looking at shelters stuff will be put in

storage by caseworker incl. this pc. pray for me steve i like you guys
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-29 3:40 PM (#560686 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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attention - bees - no I have 2 mos to go into a ass. living/rest home agency helping me w this I am cutting down

smoking w intention to quit... and my other intent is to sleep in a 57 imperial!!!!!
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-03-29 3:41 PM (#560687 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: RE: being kicked out prayers and public defender needed for me


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attention - bees - no I have 2 mos to go into a ass. living/rest home agency helping me w this I am cutting down

smoking w intention to quit... and my other intent is to sleep in a 57 imperial!!!!!
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moparsteve
Posted 2018-04-03 7:30 PM (#561093 - in reply to #547899)
Subject: will be on streets in week or 2 pray for me


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ive been on this site 10 years. have worker trying to get me into ass liv in Worcester 40 50 miles from here. he may

buy me some extra time here week or to the orig deadline was may 31 but this one said I did this and camera said
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I did that.... had an accident in lobby not fully dressed outside etc. but I keep quiet pay my rent and don't deal drugs

in a power wheelchair pray for me when I'm out of here my stuff in storage ill go to the site at library will be maybe

at shelter at sal army Cambridge mass or pine st inn boston
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